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Archive for General Interest

Pessimism and the Glad Game

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Wednesday, September 21st, 2016

Why is it that we choose, out of a wide range of available options, explanations for occurrences in our lives that lean toward the pessimistic? I am sure you have noticed this tendency in yourself or others from time to time. Some project you are working on goes bad and your first reaction may be What I loser I am… Read More

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Categories : Child Rearing, General Interest, Personal Growth

Happy New Year!

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, September 15th, 2016

Most likely the outcome of eighteen years of formal education, early September has always seemed much more to me like the beginning of a new year than January 1st does. While January 1st is just as dark and cold as December 31st was, by early September we are beginning to see evidence of a physical as well as emotional change … Read More

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Categories : Community Building, General Interest, Personal Growth
Tags : community, greed, ignorance, moral values, public spirit

Superstition

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, April 17th, 2014

How superstitious are you? While most of us associate superstition with primitive cultures and backward peoples, I find superstitious beliefs and behaviors rampant in our modern, urbane society.… Read More

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Categories : General Interest
Tags : dealing with superstition, is superstition for real, is there any such thing as superstition, superstition, the power of superstition, the role of superstition

Crying

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, January 30th, 2014

When was the last time you had a good, solid cry? If you are a woman, it was probably fairly recently. If you are a man, it may have been quite some time ago. Women are reported to cry about five times as often as men. They are even more prone to tears during the months following childbirth, during the … Read More

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Categories : General Interest, Personal Growth
Tags : crying, do i cry too much, is crying bad for me, when is crying too much, why do people cry

Lunar Observations

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, November 7th, 2013

For thousands of years people have believed that the full moon exerts a mysterious control over human mental and behavioral processes.  Our word lunatic shares the same basic Latin root Luna that stands for the moon. Is there really anything to this?… Read More

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Categories : General Interest
Tags : are we influenced by the moon, doe a full moon influence human behavior, doe the full moon cause insanity, emotions and moon

Willpower

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, August 29th, 2013

If someone could harness and bottle willpower, no doubt they would make a fortune. The notion of willpower can mean different things for different people so let’s take a closer look at the subject.

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Categories : General Interest, Personal Growth
Tags : achieve willpower, attain willpower, control willpower, develop willpower, exercise willpower, strengthen willpower, understand willpower, willpower

Death, Where is Thy Sting?

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, August 1st, 2013

While it serves no useful purpose to dwell too much upon our mortality, it serves even less purpose pretending we’re immortal. I think an unspoken denial of death, acting as if we’re not going to die, is a significant and under appreciated problem in modern life.… Read More

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Categories : Community Building, General Interest, Personal Growth
Tags : balancing mortality, coping with death, coping with mortality, dealing with mortality, dealing with your own death, death, mortality, preparing for death

Synchronicity or Coincidence?

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, May 30th, 2013

I had a guest on my TV show recently who spoke of an experience she had while attending a lecture a few months ago. … Read More

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Categories : General Interest
Tags : accidents, coincidence, hand og God, mystery, paranormal, psychic, synchronisity

Curses

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, May 2nd, 2013

Think of the word curses, as in evil spells, and most people will think of medieval or ancient times, … Read More

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Categories : General Interest
Tags : curses, evil spells, sympathetic magic

A Brief History of Fainting

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Monday, January 28th, 2013

Oh my, I’m feeling rather faint. These or similar words were uttered with much greater frequency back in the late nineteenth century than they are in modern times. Back then women, particularly those of the genteel upper class, were swooning with monotonous regularity. What are the factors that contributed to all this prodigious passing out that seem to have disappeared … Read More

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Categories : General Interest
Tags : corsets, fainting, genteel personality types
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