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Archive for Community Building

Dealing with Difficult People

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Friday, March 12th, 2021

 

There are always some people in our lives that we find difficult to get along with, whether we encounter them at work, in outside groups or in our community. Despite our best efforts to the contrary, they just seem to get our goat and unpleasantly distract us from focusing on the task at hand.… Read More

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Categories : Career Advancement, Community Building, Personal Growth, Relationship
Tags : difficult people, jerks, problematic people, troublesome people, unpleasant people

Here Come the Sun

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Friday, February 12th, 2021

 

We are living in a time of great social, political, and economic upheaval. A deadly pandemic, the likes of which we have not seen in 100 years, is sweeping the world. Political strife, the likes of which we have not seen since the Civil War, threatens our very form of government. These events seem to operate beyond our control. … Read More

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Categories : Community Building, Personal Growth
Tags : change things, do something positive, have an impact, individual action, make a difference

Happy New Year!

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, September 15th, 2016

Most likely the outcome of eighteen years of formal education, early September has always seemed much more to me like the beginning of a new year than January 1st does. While January 1st is just as dark and cold as December 31st was, by early September we are beginning to see evidence of a physical as well as emotional change … Read More

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Categories : Community Building, General Interest, Personal Growth
Tags : community, greed, ignorance, moral values, public spirit

Taking Chances

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, January 2nd, 2014

How would you rate yourself when it comes to taking chances? I don’t mean silly chances, like walking through the woods sampling every mushroom you may find, but considered growth opportunities. The concept of intentionally and willingly taking on challenges in your life that will afford growth opportunities. This is the topic I would like to examine today.… Read More

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Categories : Community Building, Personal Growth, Relationship
Tags : coping with change, coping with life's challenges, dealing with reality, facing challenges, taking chances

Sympathy for the Devil

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, October 24th, 2013

          Your vision will become clear only when you look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakens. – Carl Jung

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Categories : Community Building, Personal Growth, Relationship
Tags : accepting ourselves, contacting our secret selves, duality, embracing who we are, healing the inner split, human duality, self acceptance, understanding our nature

On Perspective

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Tuesday, October 1st, 2013

          One of the major problems of our hectic, fast-paced modern life is that we are very prone to lose our sense of perspective. … Read More

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Categories : Community Building, Personal Growth, Relationship
Tags : change your persepctive to be happier, change your perspective of people, change your perspective on life, change your perspective on problems, half empty or half full, taking control of your perspective

Dealing with Emotional Dependency

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Friday, September 20th, 2013

Turning Over A New Leaf: Dealing With Emotional Dependency

Dealing with emotional dependency is no laughing matter. Many good people are lonely and just want to find a good relationship for themselves, but their best efforts are met with repeated failure. Though each new relationship shows promise at first, they soon devolve into the familiar pattern of betrayal, hurt feelings, … Read More

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Categories : Community Building, Personal Growth, Relationship
Tags : coping with emotional dependency, dealing with emotional dependency, emotional dependency, handling emotional dependency, overcoming emotional dependency

Forgiveness

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, September 5th, 2013

Forgiveness, it has been said, is the key to happiness. As happiness is such an elusive commodity for so many of us, it seems like exploring a key to it might be a worthwhile endeavor.

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Categories : Community Building, Personal Growth, Relationship
Tags : forgiveness, forgiving your husband, forgiving your spouse, forgiving your wife, forgiving yourself, how to forgive, learning forgiveness, practicing forgiveness

Express to De-stress

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, August 8th, 2013

  Stress. Why is it that healthcare experts, feature newscasters, the AARP and our wives, families and friends always want to talk to us about stress? … Read More

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Categories : Child Rearing, Community Building, Personal Growth
Tags : emotional expression in men, men coping with stress, men expressing emotions, men handling stress, men's health, men's stress, why can't men express emotions

Death, Where is Thy Sting?

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, August 1st, 2013

While it serves no useful purpose to dwell too much upon our mortality, it serves even less purpose pretending we’re immortal. I think an unspoken denial of death, acting as if we’re not going to die, is a significant and under appreciated problem in modern life.… Read More

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Categories : Community Building, General Interest, Personal Growth
Tags : balancing mortality, coping with death, coping with mortality, dealing with mortality, dealing with your own death, death, mortality, preparing for death
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