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Author Archive for William R Colagrande MS – Page 2

Pessimism and the Glad Game

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Wednesday, September 21st, 2016

Why is it that we choose, out of a wide range of available options, explanations for occurrences in our lives that lean toward the pessimistic? I am sure you have noticed this tendency in yourself or others from time to time. Some project you are working on goes bad and your first reaction may be What I loser I am… Read More

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Categories : Child Rearing, General Interest, Personal Growth

Happy New Year!

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, September 15th, 2016

Most likely the outcome of eighteen years of formal education, early September has always seemed much more to me like the beginning of a new year than January 1st does. While January 1st is just as dark and cold as December 31st was, by early September we are beginning to see evidence of a physical as well as emotional change … Read More

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Categories : Community Building, General Interest, Personal Growth
Tags : community, greed, ignorance, moral values, public spirit

So I Married Someone Moody

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Tuesday, August 16th, 2016

Let us begin with an acknowledgment that the term moody is used to describe a very wide range of feelings and behaviors. At its most extreme, moodiness is known clinically as bipolar (formerly manic-depressive) disorder. It is characterized by extremely high highs and extremely low lows that alternate for periods of days, weeks, or months. These are often related to … Read More

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Categories : Relationship
Tags : bad moods, deal with someone moody, dealing with bad moods, moody, moody husband, moody people, moody spouse, moody wife

Superstition

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, April 17th, 2014

How superstitious are you? While most of us associate superstition with primitive cultures and backward peoples, I find superstitious beliefs and behaviors rampant in our modern, urbane society.… Read More

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Categories : General Interest
Tags : dealing with superstition, is superstition for real, is there any such thing as superstition, superstition, the power of superstition, the role of superstition

Unconscious Adventures

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, April 3rd, 2014

Our behavior, thoughts and emotions are driven in great part by forces we are only vaguely aware of at best, our unconscious (UCS) minds. Though this may be considered by some to be a daring statement (some would even say untrue), I have found it, in both my personal and professional experience, to be the case. I will attempt to … Read More

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Categories : Personal Growth
Tags : learning about the unconscious, making sense of the unconscious, unconscious attitudes, unconscious behavior, understanding the unconscious

The Value of Talents

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, March 13th, 2014

Let me preface my comments about the value of talents with a little story, courtesy of St. Matthew, 25:14-30.

 

“For it will be like a man going on a journey, who called his servants and entrusted to them his property. To one he gave five talents, to another two, to another one, to each according to his ability. Then he … Read More

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Categories : Personal Growth
Tags : appreciating talents, are talents important, developing talents, recognizing talents, understanding talents, utilizing talents

Understanding Self-Defeating Behaviors

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, February 20th, 2014

Did you ever wonder why people can become so attached to self-defeating behaviors? It defies logic. Why would someone continue to emit behaviors that are harmful to themselves and others? Why not just let them go?

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Categories : Career Advancement, Child Rearing, Personal Growth, Relationship
Tags : coping with self-defeating behaviors, dealing with self-defeating behaviors, overcoming self-defeating behaviors, understanding self-defeating behaviors

Crying

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, January 30th, 2014

When was the last time you had a good, solid cry? If you are a woman, it was probably fairly recently. If you are a man, it may have been quite some time ago. Women are reported to cry about five times as often as men. They are even more prone to tears during the months following childbirth, during the … Read More

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Categories : General Interest, Personal Growth
Tags : crying, do i cry too much, is crying bad for me, when is crying too much, why do people cry

Loneliness

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, January 9th, 2014

The feeling of loneliness is a universal experience, part and parcel of the human condition. Everyone feels lonely at least some of the time. Where people differ is in how often they feel lonely and how they respond to the feeling when it occurs. While the experience of loneliness is fairly straightforward, the root causes are fairly complicated.

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Categories : Personal Growth, Relationship
Tags : addressing loneliness, coping with loneliness, dealing with loneliness, handling loneliness, overcoming loneliness

Taking Chances

By William R Colagrande MS · Comments (0) · Thursday, January 2nd, 2014

How would you rate yourself when it comes to taking chances? I don’t mean silly chances, like walking through the woods sampling every mushroom you may find, but considered growth opportunities. The concept of intentionally and willingly taking on challenges in your life that will afford growth opportunities. This is the topic I would like to examine today.… Read More

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Categories : Community Building, Personal Growth, Relationship
Tags : coping with change, coping with life's challenges, dealing with reality, facing challenges, taking chances
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